Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Monday, February 7, 2011

Day 30-- Big Plans

I’m sitting on the couch with my laptop, watching the sheer joy on my son’s face as he, plastic sword in hand, copies the moves of his hero on the television. It’s pretty ironic that Edgar’s favorite cartoon is the same as mine when I was a kid. I think I was a little older—maybe five or six.
Saturday night, we took a look at the calendar and realized that, unsurprisingly, my six weeks at home are nearly at an end. With a trip to the coast planned for week-after-next, this is shaping up to be my last week at home. Jen and I both came to the realization that we should be treating this like a vacation—that we should be taking full advantage of every weekday that I get at home. We’re working on tentative ideas for what to do each day, but it looks like all action, all of the time. Just how I like it. Well, I guess that since Jen is recovered, and Sabrina is nearly a month old, it’s now time to play.
We talked about ideas for our album art and why it’s taking us so long. For those of you following along at home, Jen and I are in a band together. We are vinyl fans, and released our first two songs on a 45 RPM record two years ago. We’ve had our first full-length album finished and ready for almost a year now. All that needs to be done is to get the record mastered. Once the record is mastered, we need to immediately press it and put it in sleeves. So, our next step is to do the dual step of creating and readying album art and sending our ¼” reel-to-reel mixed recordings to a mastering house.
Why have we taken so long? Part of it is the inevitable changing of priorities that comes with having two kids. Part of it is the relative difficulty of recording/mixing/mastering a record 100% analog in a digital world. Part of it is the lack of record label support, but many bands release records without a label. Another large part of it is the fact that nobody actually listens to our band. That’s a hard thing to admit, but there are very, very few people who listen to our music who aren’t in some way friends or family who are obligated to say they like it. We pressed 500 copies of our 7” (a common minimum), and we probably gave away 40 and sold 10. The rest are living in our apartment and my old closet at my parents’ house. It’s not too appealing to spend a bunch of money to press our album knowing we’ll never come close to recouping it, and that we’ll have boxes and boxes of records in our attic for the rest of our lives. Regardless, we want to do it. It’s a work of art and a labor of love. We’re really proud of the music, and proud that we did it the right way, and didn’t take many shortcuts in making this record. If nobody else likes our music, at least we like it. Hopefully, it will be something that we’ll be proud of for the rest of our lives.
So—we had a discussion on art direction for the album. I came to the conclusion that I like the art from our 7”, and if we like the art, we should keep the same artist/photographer/art director. [Jen painted the watercolor and I took the picture and did layout]. I’m leaning toward some large-scale nature/landscape photographs as an album cover, in keeping with the coastal/wilderness look we did on the back of our 7”. Here are some albums I am thinking of making it look like here and here. I’d like to scour our personal photo collection for potential album covers, but I’m not sure I won’t run into pixellization/DPI issues blowing a snapshot up to 12x12. I may consider leaning on Danita and seeing what she has available, too. Katie next door has done some art for us, too, which I haven’t seen yet, but I’m not sure it lines up with that theme (but I’m not sure it doesn’t, yet, either). It might work well as side A/side B record labels, too. Why am I putting all this on my blog? I want to keep myself honest and maybe remind myself to actually do what we planned.
Later last night, I decided that if I wasn’t sleepy, I should plan for my Primary lesson tomorrow. I’m glad I did, as it was pretty involved. Sunday morning was a bit crazy. Edgar was watching He-man. We’ve watched so much He-man over the last week or so that the incidental background music for the show is constantly stuck in our heads. It’s more than a little funny. I regret getting Edgar so hooked on television, but the feedback I’ve heard from lots of parents is that this is just what happens when a new baby is born, and it goes away eventually (probably with the advent of good weather).
We (again) attempted to get Edgar to take a nap before our 12:30 church, and (again) couldn’t get him to go to sleep until it was too late to leave. We (again) missed the first hour. Maybe one of these weeks, we’ll learn. There were a lot of very cute moments singing with the kids. One of which was that one of our little 3-year old Sunbeams was asked what her favorite primary song was. Her response was the new song we’ve been working on this month. That made me melt just a little. It’s nice to know I’ve had an influence, no matter how small.
After church, we trucked up to my parents’ house, without stopping at home. We managed to catch the second half of the super bowl, and hang out with family. Edgar sure loves being around lots of family. He’s really comfortable with the chaos that comes from having a sizable extended family around.
We got home from my parents’, put Edgar to bed, and did some more planning for the next week.  We’ve got some great ideas lined up now.
Last night was interesting. Here’s how it went down: We brought Sabrina in from the car, asleep in her carseat. By 11 PM, Jen convinced me that Sabrina had already slept for 2 and a half hours and she would be fussing and waking up momentarily, but if she didn’t wake right up, we could get a level of Super Mario in. She didn’t wake up. We played some more. She didn’t wake up. We played some more. She didn’t wake up. We got stuck on a really hard level and kept trying and trying and trying and trying and before we knew it, it was 1:45 AM and Sabrina was still asleep in the carseat. At that point, we gave up and went to sleep.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Day 17-- Fencing and Basketball

We got up bright and early this morning and delivered on the promise that we made to Edgar last night-- that the moment he woke up, we'd go to Grandma and Grandpa's.

True to our word, we were on the road bright and early. We hadn't actually told my parents we were coming that early. It's a good thing my family is easy-going, right? I called Mom and gave her an hour's warning that we would be joining them for "Breakfast Club".

We learned that Dad would be repairing a fence (and that he'd be short on help), so after a fantastic, filling breakfast and nap number one, I headed outside to help Dad and nephew Henry put up a cedar fence. Edgar watched out the window, then came outside to observe, but got sidetracked by playing with cousins.

First, we tore apart the old fence, which was about 30 years old. The wood was the consistency of wet cardboard, came apart by hand, and had some really interesting moss and plant life growing on it.

From there, Dad showed us how to build a fence, then stood back and watched us do it. It felt pretty good to be working with my hands, accomplishing something concrete, and learning how to do something that I may need in the future. In short, I felt like a good son. The fence went up quick, and Mom rewarded us with our choice of two yummy lunches. [Lunch was lentil soup at noon, which I skipped, and "dinner" was ribs at 2 PM]

After a quiet afternoon nap, we were about to start our ritual game of pinochle when nephew Daniel called with an offer of free blazer tickets.

After a split-second of decision making, we decided to let Grandma and Grandpa take Edgar, and Jen, Sabrina, and I would go to the basketball game.

We had a blast. I got lots of looks as the daddy carrying the 2-week-old baby into the stadium, but there were other babies there, including a 3-month-old just a few rows in front of us who was at her 5th game (her first being at 2 weeks also).  We got a couple of pictures, which I'll post later.

Sabrina was cute and awake during the game. We had nosebleed seats, but it didn't matter. It was a blast being there. The blazers lost to the sacramento kings. The blazers were on fire when they were hot, but they spent much more time cold than hot.

Auntie Dani (my sister) had the sniffles and was heartbroken that she couldn't hold the baby during the game.

We hit the grocery store for supplies on the way home, and came home to a sleeping Edgar. Since we don't particularly have anything to do tomorrow, we'll spend the night. The sleeping arrangements will be a bit weird, though. Edgar is in a playpen in my old room. I'm going to crash in there, too, and try not to wake him up with my snoring. Jen and Sabrina are going to camp on an air mattress in my parents' basement, so as not to wake up Edgar with Sabrina's crying in the middle of the night.

The weird things we do as inexperienced parents...

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Day One -- Being Sociable

Day One:

(again, I apologize for the lack of pictures. I'll bombard the blog with pictures tomorrow)

Woke up relatively well-rested. Baby and I slept well, undisturbed on her first night in the world. Jen had some discomfort (completely understandable), and didn't sleep well until she finally capitulated and took two extra-strength tylenol. [compare this with an epidural...]

Had a nice lazy breakfast and a long day with our postpartum nurse, Pippa. Got ready for the day slowly, read some books, held the baby, and stuff. Not a bad way to spend our time together.

Edgar spent last night with my folks, and they all came and visited this morning.

Jen will give a different version of this story, but... Edgar saw his baby sister, and was very excited to see what we had all been talking about for months, but lost interest quickly. He was much more interested in his mama, and making up for lost time after a night away.  My parents were understandably cute, and we got some good pictures and good conversation in before they carted Edgar away.

Had lots of visitors throughout the day--all day, and each one was a pleasure and a blessing. We were grateful to see all the family and friends who were excited to see our baby girl. At some point during the day, during a moment of quiet clarity, we came to the name Sabrina Eldora Carmichael for our baby girl.

The name Sabrina comes from Milton's Comus, but really, it comes from the movies. Both the 1954 version of Sabrina and the 1995 remake, two of our favorite movies. (Tie goes to '95 for brilliant dialogue.)

Eldora was the name of Jen's great-grandma who was adorably cute and passed away a few years ago. Carmichael, I'm afraid we're all stuck with...

I will post many pictures of loving family holding the baby... tomorrow. We will have picture capability starting tomorrow.

I've been typing a lot of this one-handed, with a sleeping baby on my chest. I promised Jen that she would get 3 hours of uninterrupted sleep. Let's hope I can make it that long.